I can't let go of this gay marriage issue. It consumes me, and I'm not even gay. Honestly, the impact of this issue, one way or the other, has no direct bearing on my life. I have gay friends who plan on getting married, such as they can in Oregon, whether the government endorses their union or not.
What bothers me is that this represents the forceful application of a religious belief onto the people by the government. Which is basically what this boils down to. A bunch of religious zealots aren't kosher (no pun intended) with same-sex marriages, and they are trying to use the laws of this nation to force this bigotry onto the rest of us.
They are trying to take away a person's rights, just because they disagree with their sexual preference. This is so fundamentally wrong that I can't believe it's even being debated.
Consider this quote:
“The very purpose of a Bill of Rights was to withdraw certain subjects from the vicissitudes of political controversy, to place them beyond the reach of majorities and officials and to establish them as legal principles to be applied by the courts. One’s right to life, liberty, and property, to free speech, a free press, freedom of worship and assembly, and other fundamental rights may not be submitted to vote; they depend on the outcome of no elections.” (emphasis mine)
That was Supreme Court Justice Robert Jackson, during Virginia State Board of Education v. Barnett (1943). Sounds like a wise man. I wish he was still around.
Our constitution defines some absolute rights, that aren't even debatable, and the free practice of faith is the VERY FIRST ONE. Our forefathers thought the freedom of religion was so very important to our country that it's the very first thing mentioned in the Bill of Rights. You have the right to practice a faith that is discriminatory against gay people, and I have the right to practice one that says gay marriage is fine. In neither case does our GOVERNMENT have the right to outlaw either of them.
This is the same kind of stifling government that prompted our forefathers to flee England centuries ago. They fought a war to escape religious persecution. And here we are, centuries later, repeating those very same crimes against our own citizens. People are trying to make it illegal for gay people to marry, solely because it's against their religious beliefs. Sounds like religious persecution to me. The irony burns, does it not?